1. Trust
2. Communication
3. Intimacy
4. A sense of Humour
5. Sharing Tasks
6. Daily Exchanges (meals, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes, etc.)
7. Sharing Common Goals and Interests
8. Giving Each Other Space to Grow Without feeling insecure
9. Giving each other a sense of belonging and assurances of commitment
10. Concern and Care for your lover in your own ways
I would like to wish all of you
Happy and Prosperous New Year.
May you and your family be showered
with abundance health, wealth, laughters and harmony.
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╭┴──┤Happy ├╮
│ｏ ｏ │ 牛 │●°
╰┬──╯ Year │ ∴°﹒ ☆
ˍ|ˍ/ˍˍˍˍˍ/∴☆．牛轉乾坤 HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR...
| You are Extroverted, Conscientious, Agreeable, Neurotic and Open |
 You have medium extroversion. You're not the life of the party, but you do show up for the party. Sometimes you are full of energy and open to new social experiences. But you also need to hibernate and enjoy your "down time". Conscientiousness: You have medium conscientiousness. You're generally good at balancing work and play. When you need to buckle down, you can usually get tasks done. But you've been known to goof off when you know you can get away with it. Agreeableness: You have medium agreeableness. You're generally a friendly and trusting person. But you also have a healthy dose of cynicism. You get along well with others, as long as they play fair. Neuroticism: You have high neuroticism. It's easy for you to feel shaken, worried, or depressed. You often worry, and your worries prevent you from living life fully. You tend to be emotionally reactive and moody. Your either flying very high or feeling very low. Openness to experience: Your openness to new experiences is high. In life, you tend to be an early adopter of all new things and ideas. You'll try almost anything interesting, and you're constantly pushing your own limits. A great admirer of art and beauty, you can find the positive side of almost anything. Website: http://blogthings.com/thefivefactorpersonalitytest/ |
☆词 曲:kang.hyun min☆
像两首节拍不同的歌
xiang liang shou jie pai bu tong de ge
(Akin to two songs with different rhythms,)
却又同时被爱情合奏
que you tong shi bei ai qing he zou
(but at the same time being meld together by love -)
旋律勉强着
xuan lv mian qiang zhe
(The melody is forced.)
愉快不能够假装快乐
yu kuai bu neng gou jia zhuang kuai le
(Contentment is no substitute for happiness.)
你心中有宽阔的天空
ni xin zhong you kuan kuo de tian kong
(Your heart is as vast as the boundless sky,)
但空气好稀薄
dan kong qi hao xi bo
(But the air is too thin to breathe.)
曾经以为等待会改变什么
ceng jing yi wei deng dai hui gai bian shen me
(I used to think that waiting would change things,)
你总会属于我
ni zong hui shu yu wo
(That you would eventually belong to me.)
但是最后时间证明了
dan shi zui hou shi jian zheng ming le
(But in the end, time proved that -)
你只喜欢我
ni zhi xi huan wo
(You only liked me as a friend.)
你说我比较像你的好朋友
ni shuo wo bi jiao xiang ni de hao peng you
(You said that I'm more like your best friend,)
只是不小心拥抱着
zhi shi bu xiao xin yong bao zhe
(And we accidentally hugged together.)
你道歉 你难过
ni dao qian ni nan gup
(You apologised, you were sad,)
于是我给你笑容
yu shi wo gei ni xiao rong
(Hence I brought a smile to your face.)
谁在乎我的心还会不会寂寞
shui zai hu wo de xin hai hui bu hui ji mo
(Who cares if my heart is lonely?)
如果爱情是五线谱
ru guo ai qing shi wu xian pu
(If love is a staff [chinese musical instrument],)
我只希望用全音符
wo zhi xi wang yong quan yin fu3
(I only hope to use the full range of musical notes,)
吟唱出爱上你
yin chang chu ai shang ni
(To sing that I have fallen in love with you,)
那完整的幸福
na wan zheng de xing fu
(Happiness that is so complete.)
当你的心没有耳朵
dang ni de xin mei you er duo
(Regard your heart as being without ears,)
即使我为你唱这歌
ji shi wo wei ni chang zhe ge
(For even if I sing this song for you,)
你也只看见我哭了
ni ye zhi kan jian wo ku le
(You would only see me crying.)
你说我比较像你的好朋友
ni shuo wo bi jiao xiang ni de hao peng you
(You said that I'm more like your best friend,)
只是不小心拥抱着
zhi shi bu xiao xin yong bao zhe
(And we accidentally hugged together.)
你道歉 你难过
ni dao qian ni nan gup
(You apologised, you were sad,)
于是我给你笑容
yu shi wo gei ni xiao rong
(Hence I brought a smile to your face.)
谁在乎我的心还会不会寂寞
shui zai hu wo de xin hai hui bu hui ji mo
(Who cares if my heart is lonely?)
曾经以为等待会改变什么
ceng jing yi wei deng dai hui gai bian shen me
(I used to think that waiting would change things,)
你总会属于我
ni zong hui shu yu wo
(That you would eventually belong to me.)
但是最后时间证明了
dan shi zui hou shi jian zheng ming le
(But in the end, time proved that -)
你只喜欢我
ni zhi xi huan wo
(You only liked me as a friend.)
你说我比较像你的好朋友
ni shuo wo bi jiao xiang ni de hao peng you
(You said that I'm more like your best friend,)
只是不小心拥抱着
zhi shi bu xiao xin yong bao zhe
(And we accidentally hugged together.)
你道歉 你难过
ni dao qian ni nan gup
(You apologised, you were sad,)
于是我给你笑容
yu shi wo gei ni xiao rong
(Hence I brought a smile to your face.)
谁在乎我的心还会不会寂寞
shui zai hu wo de xin hai hui bu hui ji mo
(Who cares if my heart is lonely?)
你说我是你最好的朋友
ni shuo wo shi ni zui hao de peng you
(You said that I'm your best friend,)
却不应该再拥抱着
que bu ying gai zai yong bao zhe
(But we shouldn't hug anymore.)
你退缩 你冷漠
ni tui suo ni leng mo
(You withdrew, you grew colder,)
于是我放开双手
yu shi wo fang kai shuang shou
(Hence I withdrew my embrace.)
不在乎我的心
bu zai hu wo de xin
(Without concern that my heart,)
会永远更寂寞
hui yong yuan geng ji mo
(Would be even lonelier forever.)
呜。。。
wu...
(Oooh....)
Website: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=khyUjrYT4a4作詞：何俊明 hé jùn míng
作曲：何俊明 hé jùn míng
*我 守候在你家的門外
wǒ shǒuhòu zài nǐ jiā de mén wài
(I waited outside your house..)
整個晚上都 不離開
zhěnggè wǎnshàng dōu bù líkāi
(…the entire night, I did not leave.)
回想你靠在我的 胸懷
huíxiǎng nǐ kào zài wǒde xiōng huái
(Thinking back when you leaned against my chest)
我要將感覺留到 every night
wǒ yào jiāng gǎnjué liú dào every night
(I want those feelings to stay every night.)
走在 吵鬧擁擠的人海
zǒu zài chǎonào yōngjǐ de rén hǎi
(Walking in the noisy crowd of people…)
我想要好好感覺你的 存在
wǒ xiǎngyào hǎo hǎo gǎnjué nǐde cúnzài
(…I really want to feel your existence.)
望著遙遠 灰色的星海
wàng zhuó yáoyuǎn huīsè de xīng hǎi
(Looking in the distant sparkly gray sea…)
一個人 孤獨的發呆
yī gèrén gūdú de fādāi
(…like a person alone in a daze.)
我依然還在 等待
wǒ yīrán hái zài děngdài
(I am still waiting…)
等待你會明白
děngdài nǐ huì míngbai
(…waiting for you to understand…)
一顆堅強的 心 在等你回來
yī kē jiānqiáng de xīn zài děng nǐ huílai
(…a strong heart is waiting for you to come back.)
風 在吹讓它擦去我 臉上的淚
fēng zài chuī ràng tā cā qù wǒ liǎn shàng de lèi
(The wind is blowing, let it wipe off the tears on my face…)
不要以為我 真的無所謂
búyào yǐwéi wǒ zhēnde wúsuǒwèi
(Do not think I really do not care.)
+ 我依然還在 等待
wǒ yīrán hái zài děngdài
(I am still waiting…)
等待你會 明白
děngdài nǐ huì míngbai
(…waiting for you to understand…)
一顆堅強的 心 在等你回來
yī kē jiānqiáng de xīn zài děng nǐ huílai
(…a strong heart is waiting for you to come back.)
不怕累 只要我的身邊有你陪
bù pà lèi zhǐyào wǒde shēnbiān yǒu nǐ péi
(I’m not afraid, as long as I have you by my side for company.)
請你相信我是真的 不後悔
qǐng nǐ xiāngxìn wǒ shì zhēnde bù hòu huǐ
(Asking you to believe that I truly did not regret it.)
repeat * +
請你相信我是真的 不後悔
qǐng nǐ xiāngxìn wǒ shì zhēnde bù hòu huǐ
(Asking you to believe that I truly did not regret it.)
I know it had been months since I blogged something.
I know you all are wondering what I had been up to right?
Been really busy with my internship and travelling around certain parts of australia.
I will update you all further more of the places I've been to.
I shall end of for now though.
What do you think your primary love language is?
Supposedly we each have one distinctive one that we must receive in order to feel truly fulfilled in our relationships.
The first love language listed is words of:
Affirmation
The language we hear, be it positive affirming words or negative language and feedback, drastically effects our developing personalities and therefore our behaviors.
The second love language listed is:
Gifts
"A gift is a tangible object that says, 'I was thinking about you. I wanted you to have this. I love you.' . . . A gift by its very nature is not payment for services rendered.
When a dating partner says, 'I will give you . . if you will . .' the partner is not offering a gift, nor is he expressing love. The person is simply striking a deal."
The third love language the book lists is:
Acts of Service
An example is: "I know he loves me because he always checks my car over before I leave on a business trip. He checks the oil, the tires, and makes sure I have windshield washer fluid, etc."
The next love language is
Quality time
This love language is about the experiences we share with our loved ones. How do you spend your time together? Quality time does not involve you in one room surfing the internet while he is in the other room watching ESPN!
The final love language is:
Physical Touch
The book states, "Numerous research projects in the area of child development have come to the same conclusion: Babies who are held, hugged, and touched tenderly develop a healthier emotional life than those who are left for long periods of time without physical contact. . ."Almost instinctively in a time of crisis we hug one another. Why? Because physical touch is a powerful communicator of love."
So after reading after this entry, what do you think is your primary love language?
If you're currently in a partnership or more serious dating relationship, what do you think your significant other or partner's love language is?